A private decision guide
Should I respond?
Five questions can help separate a necessary practical reply from a reaction that may create more conflict.
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Is there an immediate practical issue?
Consider safety, child welfare, a scheduled exchange, an imminent deadline, a court requirement or another essential matter.
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This reflection tool is peer-informed education, not legal advice. Court orders and genuine safety, child-welfare, medical or time-sensitive issues take priority. Contact the appropriate professional or emergency service when needed.